Friday, July 31, 2009


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3 words that meant the world.

Some of the most significant messages people deliver to one another
often come in just three words. When spoken or conveyed, those
statements have the power to forge new friendships, deepen old ones and
restore relationships that have cooled. The following three-word
phrases can enrich every relationship.

there for another person is the greatest gift we can give. When we are
truly present for other people, important things happen to them and to
us. We are renewed in love and friendship. We are restored emotionally
and spiritually. 'Being there' is at the very very core of civility.

I MISS YOU - Perhaps more marriages could be salvaged and strengthened if
couples simply and sincerely said to each other, "I miss you." This
powerful affirmation tells partners they are wanted, needed, desired
and loved.

I RESPECT YOU - Respect is another way of showing
love. Respect conveys the feeling that another person is a true equal.
It is a powerful way to affirm the importance of a relationship.

MAYBE YOU'RE RIGHT - This phrase is highly effective in diffusing an argument
and restoring frayed emotions. The flip side of "maybe you're right" is
the humility of admitting "maybe I'm wrong."

Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would
admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable
to faults, foibles and failures. A man should never be ashamed to own
he has been in the wrong, which is but saying, in other words, that he
is wiser today than he was yesterday.

I THANK YOU - Gratitude is
an exquisite form of courtesy. People who enjoy the companionship of
good, close friends are those who don't take daily courtesies for
granted. They are quick to thank their friends for their many
expressions of kindness. On the other hand, people whose circle of
friends is severely constricted often do not have the attitude of

COUNT ON ME - "A friend is one who walks in when
others walk out," Loyalty is an essential ingredient for true
friendship; it is the emotional glue that bonds people. Those who are
rich in their relationships tend to be steady and true friends. When
troubles come, a good friend is there, indicating "you can count on me."

LET ME HELP - The best of friends see a need and try to fill it. When they
spot a hurt they do what they can to heal it. Without being asked, they
pitch in and help.

I UNDERSTAND YOU - People become closer and
enjoy each other more if they feel the other person accepts and
understands them. Letting others know in so many little ways that you
understand him or her is one of the most powerful tools for healing
your relationship.

GO FOR IT - Some of your friends may be non
conformists, have unique projects and unusual hobbies. Support them in
pursuing their interests. Rather than urging your loved ones to
conform, encourage their uniqueness-everyone has dreams that no one
else has.

I suppose the 3 little words that you were expecting to see have to be reserved for those who are special; that is I LOVE YOU.

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Thursday, July 30, 2009

It's called "good husband"

A total crap but interesting.

A wife comes home early one day and finds her husband in their bed making love to a beautiful, sexy young woman.

unfaithful, disrespectful pig! How dare you do this to me your faithful
wife, the mother of your children! I'm leaving this house and I want a
divorce!" The husband replies, "Just wait a minute! Before you leave,
at least listen to what happened."

"Hmmmmm, I don't know. Well,
okay, but it'll be the last thing I ever hear from you. Make it fast,
you lying, cheating dog!" The husband begins to tell his story "While I
was driving home, this woman stopped me and asked me for a ride. She
was so young and defenseless that I went ahead and let her in the car.

noticed she was very thin, not well dressed, and very dirty. She told
me she hadn't eaten in three days. With great compassion and caring I
brought her home and warmed up the enchiladas I made for you last night
that you wouldn't eat because you're afraid you'll gain weight. The
poor thing devoured them.

“Since she was very dirty, I asked her
if she'd like to take a shower. While she was showering, I noticed her
clothes were filthy and full of holes, so I threw them away. Since she
then needed some clothes, I gave her a pair of jeans you've had for a
few years and can no longer wear because they're too tight on you. I
also gave her the blouse I gave you on our anniversary that you won't
wear because you think I don't have good taste. I gave her the pullover
my sister gave you for Christmas that you won't wear just to bug my
sister, and I also gave her the boots you bought at that expensive
boutique and have worn only once after seeing one of your co-workers
wearing the same pair."

The husband continues his story...

young woman was very grateful to me, and as we were walking to the door
she suddenly stopped and turned to me, tears streaming down her face,
and said, "Sir, do you have anything else your wife doesn't use?"

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Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Tuesday, July 28, 2009

Email from a friend

Some of you might have received this before... this is for those who haven't seen it.. be patient, you will understand at the end.









The only wood that I ate, as far as I know is ginseng. Wait, that's root not wood.


Damn.... I just saw one of my friend's blog and found out that he just recently broke up with his girlfriend. His blog post was darn romantic, I too felt emo for him after reading it. He even wrote a song for her. I was like 'o my gosh... this is just so sad'.

After exiting his blog, I said to myself 'This is why relationships freak me out because I hate the break ups.' I am telling you, this season is like the breaking up season for me because I see many people breaking up.

I was just talking about it with Mirul when we're on our way to the post office in Pyramid. He was saying that 'it kind of doesn't really matter who you are dating these days because you know that most likely it's going to end'. Then I said 'Then what is the point of getting together in the first place?'. I don't want something that is just for the short term memories because every person that you declare Gf/Bf will always remain in some part of you even after you break up. It's like 2 pieces of paper glued together, once dry, you pull them apart, each paper will leave residue to the other paper. Is not as simple as you get in and you get out.

Some people are just looking for the 'one'. Is not bad, is good but take your time. Don't rush please, I've seen too many sad endings. Seriously, it's hurting me more than it hurts you.

Monday, July 27, 2009

Thank you Michelle Lau WC!!

She is back! From travelling to Angmo countries! Which I was darn jealous! I know everybody knows that....

She bought all of us gifts.

Guess what I've got? She knows I love mints, she got licorice mints for me because the box was very nice. I tried one today, haha, licorice turns out to be not-that-tasty. I always thought it was sweet. It smelled like those chinese medicine shop and mich says that it taste like those chinese diarrheoa pills (po chai yun). Which is true! No matter what I am gonna finish it.... someday! It from SWISS!

I can't believe she went to sephora! In PARIS! I think she got me a kind of cute small bar soap from there. Wait, are you sure it's soap? Or is it the bar thing that you throw in your bath tub? What is effervescent bath cube? I will find out... soon.

And I believe there's something from LONDON. Let me check..... it's copper and gold hairband. Cute!

Sorry that my blog these days are picture-less. Just total lazy-ness that hits me.

Today went Karaoke with the usuals and a movie after that. Stomach filled with popcorn, the whole story was dumb. Amirul and I didn't know that Aaron and Christine bought popcorn combo for us, so no surprise that we ended up eating 2 large buckets of popcorn and 2 medium size soda each throughout the whole Harry Potter movie. For the first time ever, I visited the toilet during movie time. Also, I wasn't paying attention to the movie at all, I was laughing and laughing and keep on telling Amirul that I am sleepy half way through the movie. SORRY MIRUL.. kacau your movie time.

So.. stupid. I should just stay off next time...haha.. blur right..

Sunday, July 26, 2009


Barley + Honey = Barleny

Wah, damn lame man....
I'm coming up with all kinds of stupid names for no reasons.
Though, non-sweet barley with pure honey taste great. They are so meant to be together!
Due to the weather, my mom has been boiling barley drink almost everyday. Once it is running out, she'll start boiling. She does not add sugar, thus, the slight sweetness only comes from the winter melon stick. It is healthier that way but sometimes I have sweet tooth, so my dad told me to add honey that we got from my aunt who stays in Malacca.

I was blog hopping just a second ago and I found something really hilarious and it is so true. In western countries, they categorize Asians into Chinese, Vietnamese, Malay and etc. The main point here is that when they see that you are a Chinese, you must be from the country China. If you are a Malay, then you come from the country Malaysia. That blogpost makes me laugh, is so cute. I'm not saying that ang mo shouldn't discriminate us like that, it's not their fault for not knowing. If u were them, I will think that way too. I mean it is so easy to say that Chinese are from China while Malays are from Malaysia, who knows maybe they will say that Indians are from India?

My youtube channel is so dead, I am trying to save money now. Even my younger brother is richer than me. Youth Alive board is sucking the life out of me, used my service hours to do the collage work. It's alot of work and still have loads of work to do. I better call people up to help after prayer meeting next saturday.

My sims3 is not working with me. I can't install, followed instructions and everything. Don't care la, i gave up this evening. I am so tired of trying, sometimes you just got to give up hoping and find another alternative. It may cost you more but the rewards may be greater in return. Wah... I feel so social psychology-ish. What crap, just for a few pieces of CD plate.
Living in the past is a bad thing, people should just move on. So live your life!

Friday, July 24, 2009

Grab It!

Check it out!

I am not funny

Are you sure?
Hmm maybe I am sure...

Stop trying,
It's pointless even if you were crying.

but don't give up hoping!

Hopes and dreams are good
But without actions are bad

what am I craping,
This is so contradicting.

Maybe I should stop talking,
Too bad I can't

I am hungry
that's what makes me so cranky.

Life is nothing but a dream
but reality is not a cherry on a bowl of cream

Jq, stop making it rime
though is not a crime

Keep Quiet lahh

what is this?
It is so not in my list.

haha, man
This is funnier than playing hangman!

Thursday, July 23, 2009

Wasn't supposed to be rhymy....It ain't meant to be

d***Up, down
Left and right,
There's only just one side.
Center is not a choice but it's a choice for runners.
A path that they will never complete,
It's a never ending race.
***In and out
This makes me laugh out loud.
It put a smile on my face
It is a grace
For the most memorial unproductive chat ever
With a friend that's forever.
***Trying to recall
It is something about door
Funny that I never thought about it
That I would wonder while I sit
I am still smiling
Yes, it's something.
***Life's precious as a jewel
Mixed with loads that are cruel
The world may suck
But it's also about luck
If we just stop with the complain
We may stay away from getting strain.

Listening to Colbie Caillat, Bubbly on the radio...

Wednesday, July 22, 2009

two days out

These two days outing was fun. Tuesday was with my sis and today was with my sis and bro. Its a long time I haven't been to MidValley and 1U, all became so unfamiliar to me. Actually, it always have been an alien to me. I'm getting used to Pyramid very much due to the close distance of my college.

Had some serious chocolate indulgent on Tuesday at ZEN (secret recipe). Two small cakes made two girls really full but I got really hungry once I got home for dinner. Today was at some cafe that had pretty interior/exterior settings, ordered green curry seafood noodles, sizzling BBQ thing and curry mee. Food was nice. Went for a movie after that, watched Ice Age 3, a movie that I never thought that I would watch. It was funny thought and it was in 3D.

Thanks Sis for the outing, she paid.

I am in serious financial problem, I am so broke to the point that I have to stop, rewind and start being thrifty. I admit that I spend alot these days due to the sales, it was so tempting and it is still darn tempting! Yes, I am here to announce that I am a Shopaholic. Like WH is having a super great deal on clothings, I totally didn't even try them on. I am so broke till I have lost the mood to shop.

Just heard on radio that this girl was like emo-ing because her parents cut her allowance. You haven't hear the best part yet, she used to get like RM1500 but now she will only get Rm1000. Stupid and annoying right?! My sis was like 'WAT' too. I only get Rm300 per month and she's there making noise about her allowance. I have to work to pay for my crap. I will be super duper happy if my parents give me RM1000 for my allowance monthly.

I never buy clothes from these high end, branded boutique. Eg: Forever 21, Elle, Gap, Roxy, and etc. Everytime I walked past by those shops, I will start wondering and the statement of 'if only I have the money.','if only I am rich' and blah blah blah will play over and over again just like a tape recorder. I know, I sound like a spoiled brat here. I am happy with what I have now, it is just sometimes you can't help pondering about stuffs that you never really get to do but you want to. I guess this is what pushed me hard for my future.

Bloggersess + Rambling

If you have been following me on Twitter, I said that I am a total obsess blogger. Is like I need to blog at least once a day. As long as I have internet access, I will totally blog. I know, it's craze! I too use twits loads but not as much as blogging. If I ever needed to choose, duh, it will be like so obvious answer.
Bloggersess = Obsess + Blogging
Seriously, I will just blog whatever at anytime of the day. I am so in blogging mood. I love blogging crap! Even just a few minutes before going out, I will type something and save it if i can't finish it.
I don't know why but I had already told twit and many others about my all time favourite game, The Sims, with their latest Sims 3! I am surprise that I haven't blog about it. I am excited about it but maybe wasn't as excited when Sims 2 was just out in the market. The more version coming up, the more tedious installation is but I'm fine with it so far. Learned how to install by trial and error, haven't completely install though, just so lazy. I guess I do get the fun out of finding the ways of installing a new programme. I love technology, it gives new excitement and new things to explore. FUN! Of course, you may be frustrated at first but after a while it will be fine.
Oh yeah, recently, I am beginning to like reading chick flick books. I've found that everytime I stopped by MPH, I would walk around the Teens/chick flicks/romance corner. The funniest thing is, I always walked out empty handed. I never buy those books that I wanted to read, I keep on thinking ' I will buy them when I am out with my mom shopping'. I haven't really started reading any books yet and my last book was 'The Last Lecture' for my Media Appreciation class. Before that I guess was the 'No Apologies, the truth about life,love+sex'. It was a really good book which encouraged me to attend the seminar recently in my church. Also, there will be a lot upcoming conference and events that I will be attending, lots of them are church activities which I think I am kind of looking forward to it.
My house now is filled with people. Haha, I don't mean literally. My sister from Sabah and my younger brother from Sungai Besi are back for the week. It seem RMC and UPNM got some H1N1 suspected cases so his school is close for a week. I am going out with them, it's not often I get to do this. Not sure what we'll be doing yet, we'll just see how tomorrow. My brother suppose to be home quarantine cause
H1N1 = Quarantine = Free Time
I was just telling some people that I don't mind being quarantine at home as long as I have full access to the internet/Tv/F&B/air-cond/games. (so many slash) It will be my break from everything! Actually, I am suppose to do the itinerary for the media carnival thing but I am just so lazy. See, I rather blog than do my work. I am just happy that I don't have to think about exams.

Tuesday, July 21, 2009


Drop, drop, drop
The earth does it's attraction to the droplets from the sky
Come, pour down, it's your job
The sky hears the earth's cry
Grass, flowers and trees says,
We are in thirst.
Pond, rivers and oceans says,
Fill me up.
Nobody wants the beautiful sea to dry off
That the future may be out of reach
Sometimes it may be rough
But we still love the beach!
Save the trees,
Save the forest,
Save the water,
Save the ocean,
Save our future!

I am somebody

I was there, all alone
sitting at a corner waiting for some hope.
To be found, to be accepted
to be just like everyone else.
Security and protection
is something a group can offer.
Someone to stand with me
due to our similarities.
Yes, I know,
is stupid.
so I keep telling myself,
Please stop right there
cause you are not being yourself.
Fulfilling other's desire will not gurantee yours.
You are special, you are unique
You don't need them to be something.
I am already somebody.
Just be yourself
Play your cards right
and you will be somewhere
without you even knowing it.
This is fiction.
Is not real....
Dedicated to those feeling lonely.

Sunday, July 19, 2009

Stop Hanging...

What if....

You were being hung on to a rope and your knight and shining handsome prince suppose to rescue you 30 minutes ago?

What if....

You were at a mamak stall waiting for a friend that were suppose to arrive an hour ago without any notice that he/she will be late?

Annoying right?

Feel so stupid right when you can't do any other thing but wait?

Then you will start thinking...




If you are nice, you will assume that he/she...


Will just be slightly later...

Stuck in traffic...

If you are frustrated, you'll start...



Handphone comes in handy...

press number...

dialing...*du... du...*

Worst part is when...

Sorry, please try later...

numbor yang anda dial tidak dapat dihubungi...


Please Don't Leave People Hanging,

we all want to hold on to something.

If you think that the something is not you,

just cut the string or don't even tie anything.

Let the other person free to find another place that is worth waiting and holding on too.

Please let the other person know that is impossible.

Don't let them think that it might be possible.

Don't just because you like the attention,

you will get all the attention when you have found the one that you will grab for your life.

Friday, July 17, 2009

Rally 2009

All the tags.. events that I was involved.


Got badly burned on the 1st day itself. We were so excited and played in the HOt HOT sun!
2nd night...
If your realise there's lots of serene's picture, just ignore (hahaha). She always camwhore with my camera. (most of you know that).
We went snorkling, morning trip and afternoon trip. Fun. More pictures will be posted up one i got a hold of the CD. We rent underwater camera.
Second day evening was beautiful, although it rain after that. You can see the sky was divided into two shades.

Written: Shelly.
If you can see. By Imran.

Jun Yeu and Jia Sheng
Met them on the 1st day, on the boat. We hang out on their last night.
Really nice guys. We played 'tai di' the whole night.
A night to remember cause is rare to meet people on holiday and get to hang with them.
3rd day
Relax day..
We spent most of our time by the beach minding our own business. Laying by the beach was awesome, one of my wishes came through. I finally get to just do nothing and smell the ocean while the waves hits the shore. The water that day was quite calm though.
A real escape from my busy schedule. I didn't read my mail for 4 days! Nothing bothered me other than just fun! I needed it, badly.

I was tired back there.. sleeping..


Hair done by Serene..

Hair done by Serene

Hair done by serene
Don't ask Why??!!
We all Mangsa of serene's newly opened redang salon.
I was the pity one, my hair got stuck to the comb once and twice to the hair dryer!
Sakit Giler!!
Izz and Amirul was laughing.
Last day..

I wore spec cause i wan to sleep in the bus!